
really old picture but it's the only one I have of all 3 of them!
This is a favortite saying between my friend, Kristin, and myself.  We are both 1st time moms--as you know, I have my darling Caroline and she has cutie pie twin boys, Mason & Jace, who are almost 8 months old.  We compare stories, notes, and horror stories at work, through Facebook, texts, and during playdates.  Everything is a big mystery to us.  And I'm hoping it's not just us...is this a common theme among 1st time moms??  Here are a few of the mysteries we try to fumble through togther...or as Kristin put it today: the blind leading the blind.  :-)
When do we take away the notorious 4th bottle?  Actually, neither of us had really thought about this until another friend (NOT a 1st time mom!) brought it up.
When they have lots of green snot, I mean more than you think those tiny little heads should be able to hold, and are coughing but not running a fever, do you call the doctor?  And if you do, is there a big, red note in your child's file that reads: "CRAZY NEUROTIC MOTHER!!!!"?
Solids--what, when, how much???  Puree or just chop?  What can we give our kids to snack on that's not a hunk of carbs (aka--puffs, Goldfish, Mum Mums, veggie sticks...aka--all of their favorite things).  Is it really a meal if they only ate 3 green beans, 2 grapes, and 15 kernels of corn?
Nursing (this is all Kristin...no luck on that front for me)--can she really make it for a whole year?  Is she a bad mom if she supplements?  On a side note...I know that it definitely does NOT make her a bad mom.  She is a total rock star for breastfeeding twins!!!
I know that there are a million other things that she and I have talked about, but my tired brain can't remember them all right now.  If I think of anymore, I will be sure to add on a postscipt. Lucklily, the thing all of kiddos are good at is sleeping (knock on wood that it continues, and that I didn't just jinx us!).  They're also sweet, smart, loving little bundles of happiness...most of the time...so we must be doing something right!!  
But, if any of you moms have any advice/suggestions, bring it on!  :-)